WHO YOU CALLING A HOE? Now it seems that every time a woman has sex with more than one man she’s a hoe. There are all types of ridiculous rules such as “if you sleep with more than 3 people in a year you a hoe!” Excuse me? What if she just enjoys sex? Women [...]

So there’s this guy. He asks you to come along one day to pick out a gift for his best friend. Instead of making a turn into the DVDs and sports section, you all hang a quick right into the women’s department of Macy’s. Wait a minute. This gorgeous man that you’ve finally snagged has [...]

Have you ever believed you’ve loved someone more than you’ve loved yourself? If so, then this one’s for you. I was tired. I mean tired… TIRED. I was emotionally, mentally and physically drained from a relationship I’d given all of myself to. More than I’d given to me. More than I’d given to anybody. I [...]

“You get a good man, then you b*tches act simple.” – Troy to Robin in the movie Waiting to Exhale If you’ve seen this movie, you know Troy wasn’t really a good man, but his point still stands. Women out there are getting good men and then acting SIMPLE. It’s equivalent to buying a toddler [...]

Loving a man with children can be difficult. The older you get, the more likely that your dating prospects start having little adorable crumb snatchers attached to them. Now your relationship includes you, him, AND his baby. This isn’t an article for those making a blended family in that you are both bringing children to [...]

Was your relationship already set up to fail from the beginning? There are many times women find themselves at the end of a relationship and mad brokenhearted. Often times taken off guard that it’s ended. But perhaps the relationship was destined to fail. Sometimes there are warning signs before you ever get into a relationship [...]

The Emotionally Slutty & The Bag Lady By: Dee Rene “Bag lady, you gon’ miss your bus. You can’t hurry up. Cuz you got too much stuff.” – Erykah Badu, “Bag Lady” If you’ve ever dated someone longer than 20 minutes, it’s likely you’ve also encountered heart-break. With each heart-break, hopefully you learned some nugget [...]

Worst Ways To End A Relationship Remember the infamous post-it note from Sex and the City? Carrie’s boyfriend broke up with her via a post it note on her computer. It was fictional-drama hell and every woman who watched it felt her pain. But what about when that happens in real life? Everyday people are [...]

Can you be friends with an ex? Your ex was your lover, homie, and friend at some point. You two shared A LOT and probably have some great memories together. But can you ever really go back to being ‘just friends?’ A romantic relationship ending is emotionally tiring for both parties. You have to sometimes [...]

I just wanted a ginger ale. Entering the store an older man says “Good Evening Gorgeous!” I decide that just because I have an attitude at my entire day, I don’t need to have an attitude with him and smile politely and thank him. I move on and entertain chip choices, grab my drink and [...]

It seems like everyone fell in love this winter. All my friends were deep under snuggies with wine and good men while I enjoyed my self-imposed hibernation from dating. But it’s spring time now and nothing says spring like flirting! A spring fling is essential to warm weather like bright colors and strappy sandals. If [...]

The secret to a long lasting relationship is no secret. It’s called the “3 C’s”; communication, compromise, and commitment. If you ask most couples, the ones who’ve been together for a substantial amount of time anyway, they’d tell you the same thing. Sounds easy enough, right? Of course, nothing is as easy as it seems. [...]